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		<title>By: kikai</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-42</link>
		<dc:creator>kikai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 13:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh gosh..

i have to be hones dear..

its either he doesnt know how to show of he&#039;s feelings (like the love he&#039;s feeling for you - if ever he has one)

and what im really guessing and i think im positive about..
is that..
he doesnt love you..
and yeah.. i guess that says it all..

im sorry sis.. look.. ur pretty.. u dont deserve someone like him.. yes he&#039;s totally handsome.. but hey.. looks isnt everything.. and there are still guys out there who are better.. really.. and ur pretty.. so dont fret..

^^hugs sis..
hope youll have the courage soon..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh gosh..</p>
<p>i have to be hones dear..</p>
<p>its either he doesnt know how to show of he&#8217;s feelings (like the love he&#8217;s feeling for you &#8211; if ever he has one)</p>
<p>and what im really guessing and i think im positive about..<br />
is that..<br />
he doesnt love you..<br />
and yeah.. i guess that says it all..</p>
<p>im sorry sis.. look.. ur pretty.. u dont deserve someone like him.. yes he&#8217;s totally handsome.. but hey.. looks isnt everything.. and there are still guys out there who are better.. really.. and ur pretty.. so dont fret..</p>
<p>^^hugs sis..<br />
hope youll have the courage soon..</p>
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		<title>By: siangelnawalangpakpak</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>siangelnawalangpakpak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 06:40:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>since i am a girl after all, let me just give you my own 2 cents worth...

some guys aren&#039;t that expressive. they hate the idea of looking weak and emotional. i don&#039;t really know your boyfriend very well but there are basically three scenarios why he&#039;s acting that way:

1. he loves you but is just not as expressive.

2. you love him more than he loves you.

3. he&#039;s just not that into you anymore

personally, my vote goes for the 3rd one. you are young. and there are plenty of boys out there who can fill your expectations of how a boyfriend should act and react. if you aren&#039;t considering leaving him, then just go with the flow and don&#039;t take the relationship too seriously.

just enjoy your youth.

angel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>since i am a girl after all, let me just give you my own 2 cents worth&#8230;</p>
<p>some guys aren&#8217;t that expressive. they hate the idea of looking weak and emotional. i don&#8217;t really know your boyfriend very well but there are basically three scenarios why he&#8217;s acting that way:</p>
<p>1. he loves you but is just not as expressive.</p>
<p>2. you love him more than he loves you.</p>
<p>3. he&#8217;s just not that into you anymore</p>
<p>personally, my vote goes for the 3rd one. you are young. and there are plenty of boys out there who can fill your expectations of how a boyfriend should act and react. if you aren&#8217;t considering leaving him, then just go with the flow and don&#8217;t take the relationship too seriously.</p>
<p>just enjoy your youth.</p>
<p>angel</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-40</link>
		<dc:creator>Danielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 04:13:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello :) It&#039;s my first time to drop by your blog. La lang. :)) Hehe

Well, I don&#039;t know what to say. I mean, maybe he&#039;s still sort of getting used to it? Your relationship is still new, so it&#039;s s possibility. My boyfriend and I used to be like that too. I&#039;d be overly sweet, and he&#039;d be uhm... Passive? But it passed. Now he&#039;s sweeter than ever.

Give it time. Maybe he&#039;s just not yet ready? We can never know. But if you insist, then break up with him. You shouldn&#039;t get hurt all the time because of that. :)

And plus, you&#039;re young! :) You don&#039;t have to fall in love too deeply. [Trust me, I did that mistake.] Feel free to mingle with other guys. ^^, Hahaha.

Ex links? :)

Take care. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  It&#8217;s my first time to drop by your blog. La lang. <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ) Hehe</p>
<p>Well, I don&#8217;t know what to say. I mean, maybe he&#8217;s still sort of getting used to it? Your relationship is still new, so it&#8217;s s possibility. My boyfriend and I used to be like that too. I&#8217;d be overly sweet, and he&#8217;d be uhm&#8230; Passive? But it passed. Now he&#8217;s sweeter than ever.</p>
<p>Give it time. Maybe he&#8217;s just not yet ready? We can never know. But if you insist, then break up with him. You shouldn&#8217;t get hurt all the time because of that. <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And plus, you&#8217;re young! <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  You don&#8217;t have to fall in love too deeply. [Trust me, I did that mistake.] Feel free to mingle with other guys. ^^, Hahaha.</p>
<p>Ex links? <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Take care. <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: ian</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-39</link>
		<dc:creator>ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 10:09:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haup n boypren ean oh !
he  is the worst boyfriend eber.
if i were him, ill love you.
i think he is just taking you for granted. im not saying that he doesn&#039;t love you, but it&#039;s so sumkinda like that,

`ian</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haup n boypren ean oh !<br />
he  is the worst boyfriend eber.<br />
if i were him, ill love you.<br />
i think he is just taking you for granted. im not saying that he doesn&#8217;t love you, but it&#8217;s so sumkinda like that,</p>
<p>`ian</p>
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		<title>By: fei</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-38</link>
		<dc:creator>fei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 04:42:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>omg..as in OMG! wth is happenin to ur bf..argh~ weLL, hm i dunno where you two started ur reLationship..some guys kasi, sa umpisa, hindi pa LOVE ung nararamdaman..baka he Likes you, so he wants to have you..1 month pLang naman kau eh..maybe he&#039;s just starting to get to know you better..Love wiLL foLLow sis..just give him time..taLk to him..maging open kau with each other..wag idaan sa init ng uLo sis..hindi maaaus yan kung gaLit agad ang ibabato mo sa kanya ^^ if he&#039;s worth fighting for naman bakit kaiLangan makipag&#039;break ryt? just Love him sis..everything wiLL turn out right..again, just give him time..kung taLagang mga 1year na eh ganyan parin cya..naku..kotongan mo na then Leave him! haha LoL! [ senxa na masyado na kasi seryoso..peace! ]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>omg..as in OMG! wth is happenin to ur bf..argh~ weLL, hm i dunno where you two started ur reLationship..some guys kasi, sa umpisa, hindi pa LOVE ung nararamdaman..baka he Likes you, so he wants to have you..1 month pLang naman kau eh..maybe he&#8217;s just starting to get to know you better..Love wiLL foLLow sis..just give him time..taLk to him..maging open kau with each other..wag idaan sa init ng uLo sis..hindi maaaus yan kung gaLit agad ang ibabato mo sa kanya ^^ if he&#8217;s worth fighting for naman bakit kaiLangan makipag&#8217;break ryt? just Love him sis..everything wiLL turn out right..again, just give him time..kung taLagang mga 1year na eh ganyan parin cya..naku..kotongan mo na then Leave him! haha LoL! [ senxa na masyado na kasi seryoso..peace! ]</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-37</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 03:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmm pinakamganda mong gawin sis ay magusap kayo ng maayos try to open the things you want to be clear mahirap din kasi magpadalosdalos ng desicion lalo na kung break agad baka mamaya ikaw din ang magsisisi sa huli. mas maging malaman mo din ung side nia why cia ganon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmm pinakamganda mong gawin sis ay magusap kayo ng maayos try to open the things you want to be clear mahirap din kasi magpadalosdalos ng desicion lalo na kung break agad baka mamaya ikaw din ang magsisisi sa huli. mas maging malaman mo din ung side nia why cia ganon.</p>
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		<title>By: araki</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-36</link>
		<dc:creator>araki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 03:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>na link na qta...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>na link na qta&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Aisha</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-35</link>
		<dc:creator>Aisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 23:42:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>toink bkt daw hnd ka nya mbbgyan nng gift? hmm.. bgo plng kau so observ muna.. adjustment stage ehehe.. pero prang bato yang bf mo ah.. kausapn mo kya about sa feelings mo?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>toink bkt daw hnd ka nya mbbgyan nng gift? hmm.. bgo plng kau so observ muna.. adjustment stage ehehe.. pero prang bato yang bf mo ah.. kausapn mo kya about sa feelings mo?</p>
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		<title>By: kei</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-34</link>
		<dc:creator>kei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 21:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>aww.. bakit naman ganun.. haay.. why is he taking you for granted?.. i think you must taLk things first and take it sLowLy.. breaking up is not -and never- the soLution.. dpat ayusin nyo muna.. pag-usapan.. compromise.. if he says that&#039;s the way he is, then teLL him that it&#039;s harsh.. teLL him you&#039;re getting hurt.. give him time to change.. or maybe to adjust.. since 1 month pLang kayo, don&#039;t rush things.. after taLking things up.. respect and act on whatever you have BOTH decided.. if he compromised and stiLL he won&#039;t change, then that&#039;s the time to decide whether to toLerate MORE of him and hoLd on, or just Let go for the better. hope this heLps.. maaayos yan, don&#039;t worry =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>aww.. bakit naman ganun.. haay.. why is he taking you for granted?.. i think you must taLk things first and take it sLowLy.. breaking up is not -and never- the soLution.. dpat ayusin nyo muna.. pag-usapan.. compromise.. if he says that&#8217;s the way he is, then teLL him that it&#8217;s harsh.. teLL him you&#8217;re getting hurt.. give him time to change.. or maybe to adjust.. since 1 month pLang kayo, don&#8217;t rush things.. after taLking things up.. respect and act on whatever you have BOTH decided.. if he compromised and stiLL he won&#8217;t change, then that&#8217;s the time to decide whether to toLerate MORE of him and hoLd on, or just Let go for the better. hope this heLps.. maaayos yan, don&#8217;t worry =)</p>
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		<title>By: Angelica</title>
		<link>http://cherried.net/2008/10/2nd-thought/comment-page-1/#comment-33</link>
		<dc:creator>Angelica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 19:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand that you want your boyfriend to show you some affection but I understand if he doesn&#039;t want to say &quot;I love you&quot; just yet. After all you&#039;ve only been going out for one month. I&#039;ve NEVER told a boyfriend that I loved him. I wasn&#039;t ready to say that even after almost six months. Some people are like that. Those are strong words and I think it&#039;s more special if you wait to say a thing like that.

However I do understand that you want him to be at least a bit more affectionate. Perhaps he&#039;s just shy. Many people have a hard time showing love.

Just give him time. :)

Sure I&#039;d like to exchange links. I&#039;ll add you to my link exchangees list asap.

Take care!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand that you want your boyfriend to show you some affection but I understand if he doesn&#8217;t want to say &#8220;I love you&#8221; just yet. After all you&#8217;ve only been going out for one month. I&#8217;ve NEVER told a boyfriend that I loved him. I wasn&#8217;t ready to say that even after almost six months. Some people are like that. Those are strong words and I think it&#8217;s more special if you wait to say a thing like that.</p>
<p>However I do understand that you want him to be at least a bit more affectionate. Perhaps he&#8217;s just shy. Many people have a hard time showing love.</p>
<p>Just give him time. <img src='http://cherried.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Sure I&#8217;d like to exchange links. I&#8217;ll add you to my link exchangees list asap.</p>
<p>Take care!</p>
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